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Writer. Gamer. Enjoys Korean dramas, music, movies, video games, silly pet photos.

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Moira Donegan's avatar Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social
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#Metoo ruined lives: the women’s. For the summer issue of Bookforum, I wrote about Christine Blasey Ford’s memoir “One Way Back,” the aftermath of disclosure, and what it means to be a public survivor when storytelling has proven futile. www.bookforum.com/culture/disp...

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Matt Wallace's avatar Matt Wallace @mattfnwallace.bsky.social
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If I had a sub sandwich shop I’d offer Shrapnel Bowls made of all the sandwich trimmings and debris that gets scraped off the cutting board and for an extra dollar we’d cover it all in garlic mayo and it’d become the most popular thing on the menu and Shrapnel would be a billion $ chain in a year.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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I think it was Houston! I -am- from near Chicago originally.

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There is a word for someone who only shows up when they need something from you. It is not 'friend'.

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Tom Scocca's avatar Tom Scocca @tomscocca.bsky.social
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It’s pretty alarming how the reporters suddenly devoted to watchdogging Biden can’t tell the difference between real drastic glitches like in the debate and normal fumbling

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Courtney Milan's avatar Courtney Milan @courtneymilan.com
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I'm not interested in arguing with people who have been doing this. Please understand that the thing I think you're accomplishing, wittingly or not, is making people with stories feel like they can't come forward.

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Stephen Webb's avatar Stephen Webb @stephenwebb.bsky.social
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lemme be clear here if the dem nominee is a ham sandwich, i'm getting ham sandwich stickers and writing gotv postcards and helping cure ballots for ham sandwich 2024. but anyone who thinks biden dropping off the ticket will not be met with weird gop ratfucking chaos just fell off a turnip truck.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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Disappointed in people choosing not to believe survivors today. No matter how it's framed or rationalized, survivors see it and may be injured again.

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Raven Oak's avatar Raven Oak @ravenoak.bsky.social
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I have way too many friends who were supportive of the #MeToo movement, who shouted "believe women!" who are now defending someone because they really like this person's work. That's not how this works, folks.

Either you support and believe women or you don't. 1/

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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I won't be breaking confidences. If others wish to speak up, they will do so when they're ready. But sleeping with the nanny within hours of meeting her? You -really-think there was no sense of pressure or power imbalance? If you think that's fine, we have nothing to discuss anyway.

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Michael Tae Sweeney's avatar Michael Tae Sweeney @mtsw.bsky.social
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It's pretty interesting what the media decides is front page news and what they don't decide is front page news! Trump being a child sex abuser with close connections to Jeffrey Epstein somehow doesn't merit the same coverage as "unnamed Dem insider has concerns about Biden's age"

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle's avatar Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social
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If your body is the key or the obstacle to somebody’s love, it’s not really love.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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I am saying survivors shared multiple stories. Some were about rich, powerful men who have repeatedly managed silence those they hurt. I do not have permission to share those stories. One woman was afraid of being drummed out of publishing because the details her account were so specific.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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Writing as catharsis, whether for your own benefit, or to share with others, isn't weird at all.

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Skyla is offline resetting her brain. Buy her books.'s avatar Skyla is offline resetting her brain. Buy her books. @skyladawn.ca
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Yeah it's normal to feel betrayed by someone when you admire their work. It's normal to scramble to fit this new info into your understanding of them. It's normal to hope there's a mistake. But these are things you can work out privately rather than in a public forum where survivors see your words.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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Rich white cis men don't need your tolerance and grace. The world cuts them enough slack already.

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If you're scrambling to make excuses for someone who has done something terrible just because you admire them, please unfollow me. We're not on the same page.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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It's a lot. I posted about one perpetrator at the survivor's request and the world chose to dismiss the account because 'he seemed so cool and nice'. And people wonder why many survivors just struggle silently. ☹️

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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About five years ago, I opened my DMs on the bird site and told people I would listen and believe them.

The accounts I heard were horrifying and heartbreaking. Some perpetrators were too powerful to tackle, as they were wealthy and litigious.

I am not surprised today. #believesurvivors

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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We're officially living in our new condo now! Tomorrow, we have the gas company coming out, a water heater installation, and someone who's doing a shower door and some accent tile. It's gonna be a wild ride.

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Elle's avatar Elle @elleisanisland.bsky.social
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loving this happy gargoyle guy who's being moved to a new spot and is clearly having the time of his life

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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According to this, I'm from Texas. (I am not.)

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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If I could turn back time, I would finally get to use the perfect retort that I come up with two hours too late.

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Musicology Duck's avatar Musicology Duck @musicologyduck.bsky.social
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someone was asking for more photos of my cat

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Lev Parikian's avatar Lev Parikian @levparikian.bsky.social
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About time too. It’s well known that chickens and ducks are the most irresponsible pet owners.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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I was honestly so flummoxed that I fumbled it and said, "Some people do."

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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If you need me, I will be tending to my collection of obsolete media. Like books. And laser discs. (Okay, I don't own any laser discs.)

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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Recently someone asked me what I do for a living. I said, "I write books." In the olden days, this was met with excitement and oh-so-many questions. This time, the dude gave me a quizzical look. "Do people still read books?" 😭

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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It is a bold choice to put yourself in a dating profile dressed as a giant pickle. After so many naked chests and "suns out guns out" pics, I respect it.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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Would settle for people in the audience dressed as sharks or wearing fins on their heads.

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Microplastics Sommelier's avatar Microplastics Sommelier @leastactionhero.bsky.social
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einstein sent this to curie in 1911 when she was being harassed by tabloids. it contains everything you’d want in such a letter: (1) your haters are trash (2) you’re a baller, a true queen (3) i have determined the statistical law of motion of the diatomic molecule in planck’s radiation field 🧪⚛️

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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After reading this, I now want Uncle Joe to do this debate in a shark costume. Please manifest this for me, universe.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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Earliest twice-baked potato recipe?

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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I'm glad you managed it. So many people don't have the resources to relocate.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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Then you know exactly what I'm talking about. Getting us out of Mexico was exorbitant.

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Skye Kilaen's avatar Skye Kilaen @skyekilaen.bsky.social
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Do you want to read more adult M/M romance by queer men & transmasc authors?

I did too! So I started looking... and I've now found over 200 authors. 🎉

planetjinxatron.com/romance-auth...

If you see any needed corrections or there's an author I should add, let me know.

Happy Reading! 🌈📚

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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I'm excited about moving into our permanent home, but I'm also flinching over how much it costs to move. And that's within the same town! Anyone who says, "Just leave" clearly doesn't understand the economic challenges involved with a big geographic relocation.

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Kari Dru's avatar Kari Dru @karidru.bsky.social
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"Wasn't this an episode of..." You know what, yes. It was an episode of everything. Do not do THIS SHIT SPECIFICALLY is an entire genre of sci fi.

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Ann Aguirre's avatar Ann Aguirre @annaguirre.bsky.social
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Saw a hashtag #fuckimold

I read it as Fuck I mold.

I was like, yes, regular hygiene is important. Scrub off any musty bits!

Wait. Wait...

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Courtney Milan's avatar Courtney Milan @courtneymilan.com
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I don’t think we have an inflation problem so much as a private equity/large unchecked corporation problem.

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