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Talia Lavin

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tfw you go through five separate interview rounds with your heart in your mouth and don't get the damn job after all that ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ

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Tim's avatar Tim @cthulul.bsky.social
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The job market is rough right now. 5 rounds? Bill them for the time.

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Caution๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆโœก๏ธ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ 's avatar Caution๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆโœก๏ธ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ @noncompliant.bsky.social
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Oh wow, thatโ€™s just the worst. Glad ing through similar here, you have my deepest sympathies and wishes that it all seems like a bad memory soon enough.

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rone's avatar rone @ennui.org
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Five rounds is horseshit

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Jane's avatar Jane @gcbiggles.bsky.social
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UGH that sucks *so much*. Five sets of interviews is insane under any circs. Hoping for something better to come soon!!

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Zork Aficionado 's avatar Zork Aficionado @zorkaficionado.bsky.social
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My wife applied for a job that had 2 phone interviews, 1 in person and then they wanted 2 FULL DAY working interviews and she told them that unless they were paid she was pulling her name. It's getting silly.

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phrebh's avatar phrebh @phrebh.bsky.social
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That's what the swords are for. COMFORT! I only meant for comfort.

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Professor of Applied Lesbianics's avatar Professor of Applied Lesbianics @zebra.bsky.social
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I've first interviewed for a job/PhD in February (after an application process that started in *October last year*) and I'm still waiting for them to get me a second round interview (because they had to restart the application process), so I get how much this sucks. Full solidarity, take care!

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Sturg48's avatar Sturg48 @dirigojoe.bsky.social
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I went to an interview for a teaching job once, loved the school, loved the people I interviewed with. Thought I'd absolutely nailed it... and didn't get it. I've not gotten jobs before but that one hurt.

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Phil's avatar Phil @keeptheskyblue.bsky.social
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Five is a red flag, IMO.

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I Am The Wumbologist (accept no substitutes)'s avatar I Am The Wumbologist (accept no substitutes) @iamwumbologist.bsky.social
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I empathize. I went through that multiple times during my recent layoff. It's very disheartening, but try not to dwell on it. The next thing will come along soon.

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Frankie Huang ้ป„็ขง่ตค 's avatar Frankie Huang ้ป„็ขง่ตค @ourobororoboruo.bsky.social
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The idea of someone needing that much time to deliberate on hiring YOU and choosing not to is incomprehensible to me

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aboleyn's avatar aboleyn @aboleyn.bsky.social
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I'm sorry. That stinks.

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Liz Lucas's avatar Liz Lucas @lizardlucas.bsky.social
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Ugh I'm sorry, it's extra deflating when you go through a bunch of rounds like that. Remembering the time I went through a similar process, the last one was a "virtual onsite" that was four hours long. Lost out to someone much more senior for an early career position ๐Ÿ˜ฉ hope things pick up for you!

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A. Rivera 's avatar A. Rivera @bloodravenlib.bsky.social
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I hear you.

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Mette's avatar Mette @mthaastrup.bsky.social
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I'm so sorry. Also FIVE rounds?? I've NEVER heard about that in Denmark, not even for a CEO position ๐Ÿคฏ

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Mike Isaacson's avatar Mike Isaacson @vulgareconomics.bsky.social
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Honestly who the fuck do these HR managers think they are?

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OWorthyFool's avatar OWorthyFool @oworthyfool.bsky.social
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Fuuuuck I'm so sorry

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Giant Robot's avatar Giant Robot @choyon.bsky.social
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Commiserations

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you may not want to hear this, but not getting that job was a gift. any company that requires five ROUNDS doesn't know how to hire people. I'm ok w/5 people in a single round, but five separate ROUNDS? Insane.

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Fetch's avatar Fetch @ameliafetch.bsky.social
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That is ROUGH. My condolences. ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

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Minuit's avatar Minuit @zoroark.ca
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Really needs a wasted time threshold where they need to have paid you for the interview time.

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ship of fools's avatar ship of fools @quipoffools.bsky.social
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God, we just helped my partially disabled SIL through 6 mos of this - it was so fโ€™ing hard on her. You have my sympathies. ((HUGS)) On a good note, she found a great job at a place full of imperfect people who are also good at their jobs. Please hold out hope, and gather support wherever you can.

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AZTanya's avatar AZTanya @aztanya.bsky.social
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Five?! Wow. That seems like a waste of time on everybody's side.

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Dungeon Messi's avatar Dungeon Messi @tyschalter.bsky.social
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uhhhhghhhhgghhghghg i am sorry. the absolute, absolute worst

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Little Gems's avatar Little Gems @lettucewrangler.bsky.social
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Were you interviewing to be CEO? What job position actually needs more than two interview rounds to determine if you are a good fit? Also, I am sure you would have been great. They messed up.

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Fredrik Hรคthรฉn's avatar Fredrik Hรคthรฉn @fredrikhathen.bsky.social
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So sorry about this. I can relate, for what it's worth. I've been through a process that lasted for actual months with 6 different steps and things that needed to be submitted, and... still did not get it. :/

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Katherine ๐Ÿ‘'s avatar Katherine ๐Ÿ‘ @katvanzan.bsky.social
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What the hell? That's just wrong. This company has moronic mgmt.

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Becca's Mullet's avatar Becca's Mullet @beccasmullet.bsky.social
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Oh, I'm sorry.

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maybe your heart should not have been in your mouth. sounds messy

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Kurt Risser 's avatar Kurt Risser @kurtrisser.bsky.social
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I know it's discouraging, but keep trying. You *will* eventually land the job you need.

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Maxmax's avatar Maxmax @maxmax.bsky.social
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100% their loss.

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Celeste Leander's avatar Celeste Leander @drceleste.bsky.social
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Ugh thatโ€™s shitty!! And 5 rounds seems excessive

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Estarianne's avatar Estarianne @estarianne.bsky.social
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Oh, how disappointing. Hugs.

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar Benjamin Dreyer @bcdreyer.bsky.social
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Oh, Talia, I'm so sorry. I can only imagine your extreme disappointment. I'm really sorry.

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Sola Balisane 's avatar Sola Balisane @balisane.bsky.social
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I think this should be against the law, or at the very least against policy. Unless this is a C-suite or special security position, if they can't figure it out within two interviews they are wasting the candidate's time.

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Lynn Greiner's avatar Lynn Greiner @lynngr.bsky.social
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Bummer! But five is excessive for anything short of a CEO, and does not speak well of the company culture. You may have dodged a bullet

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poparhi's avatar poparhi @poparhi.bsky.social
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There should be a legal limit. That feeling fucking sucks.

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Holy fuck, 5 interview rounds? That feels downright irresponsible of them to put people through that - to take up that much of people's time and life - and not give them an offer at the end. The most we've ever done is 3 rounds, and that was for C-suite positions.

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Howie from Maryland ๐Ÿฆ€'s avatar Howie from Maryland ๐Ÿฆ€ @hocohowie.bsky.social
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The worst. And it's becoming more the rule rather than the exception unfortunately.

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Andrea Gutierrez's avatar Andrea Gutierrez @andreagtrrz.bsky.social
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Booooo I hate this so much

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Jimm's avatar Jimm @aretep.bsky.social
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The same thing happened to my daughter, five positive interviews. Boom, not hired. Four months later they call her out of the blue, offer her a better job, and said she was the only candidate. She starts in October. Perhaps your story will have a similar ending. (fingers crossed)

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Phil McDuff's avatar Phil McDuff @mcduff.bsky.social
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That's too many rounds

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Blue Heron Farm's avatar Blue Heron Farm @blueheronfarm.bsky.social
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That's fucking unnecessary torture. I'm sorry

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KC Momkin's avatar KC Momkin @kc-momkin.bsky.social
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I am not making the money I thought I would make based on my education. I don't have high status. But I like my job, I like my coworkers, and I am doing things that need to be done to help the world. The world needs you and your talents...

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KC Momkin's avatar KC Momkin @kc-momkin.bsky.social
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Did they ever actually tell you what the hours or pay would be? It floors me how many job postings leave that out.

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Not sure why, but this has become commonplace. Hang in there. Try again.

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Same thing happened to me a couple months back. 5 interviews, and an 8 hour take home assignment. I thought I had it in the bag because I felt like I was vibing with the interviewers. โ€œWe really like you but we found someone who fit the profile better.โ€ That shit hurts.

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Banshee of Inishittening's avatar Banshee of Inishittening @jwar.bsky.social
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FIVE? Unless youโ€™re interviewing for Secretary of State, thatโ€™s ridiculous

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Shoeflyin 's avatar Shoeflyin @shoeflyin.bsky.social
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It sould be against the law to require more than 2 interviews for a job. Or at least you should get paid like $100 an hour plus expenses for them. 5 interviews is cruel and unusual punishment.

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Ordo Templi Ultra's avatar Ordo Templi Ultra @occulttradeunion.bsky.social
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My condolences ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป

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Drew Broussard's avatar Drew Broussard @drewsof.bsky.social
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NOOOO! The worst feeling!!! Iโ€™m sorry to hear it!!

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