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cheese mouse@cheesemouse.bsky.social |
fuck a red flag. tell me your favorite green flag in a person
103 replies 21 reposts 215 likes
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(Morgann’s version)
@tardisinparis.bsky.social
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My dating life in one skeet.
1 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Tybalt in black jeans
@thekennedykab.bsky.social
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When she unapologetically farts when we are alone.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Jared 🔶
@quantumjared.bsky.social
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She cooks up a fucking storm and it always tastes SO good. Her failures taste better than most people’s best meals.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Northern Girl ✨💫
@northerngirl.bsky.social
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Love this. Honestly, integrity, kind, and being able to be open to discussion and debate.
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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CircusNoBread
@berkeleyeve.bsky.social
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laugh lines .... i'm old. by the time you reach a half century, you have the face you deserve. if you havnt Botox'd it😝 laugh lines, habitual smiles, engrave themselves🥳💋
0 replies 0 reposts 0 likes
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Obi Wan Kenoblerone
@somewelshmook.bsky.social
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when people do that involuntary snort-laugh and it just makes them laugh harder
1 replies 0 reposts 4 likes
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Sarah Baillie
@sarahbaillie6.bsky.social
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Reciprocal respect and conversation with hospitality workers.
0 replies 0 reposts 3 likes
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Six will do the damn thing.
@thesix.bsky.social
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When we vibe in silence.
3 replies 2 reposts 66 likes
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Chris Broome
@cabroome.bsky.social
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The ultimate test for me is whether the relationship can survive, even thrive on a vacation. No one can keep up an act for more than 24 hours. When you’re away together you’ll have to face what you are to each other
2 replies 0 reposts 20 likes
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cugini
@cuginibea.bsky.social
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when we can both enjoy our hobbies independently AND still enjoy being together in a room
0 replies 0 reposts 37 likes
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d.ly
@dly.bsky.social
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they prompt post asking for nice green flags that we can all read thru
2 replies 0 reposts 9 likes
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Auxuna 🌳 Is plotting ✨ 📚💙
@auxuna.bsky.social
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Empathy and... Doesn't think they are the main character.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Meat Sweats Enthusiast
@raulpudd.bsky.social
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Nice to fast food workers
0 replies 0 reposts 48 likes
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Nova
@transrightsnova.bsky.social
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Being able to tell me they are not in a good space to talk about something, instead of bottling it up and listening or tuning me out.
0 replies 0 reposts 17 likes
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Bae Blade 🏳️⚧️ 🗡️
@baeblade.bsky.social
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High respect of other peoples belongings. I take very good care of my things and it irks me to no end when someone is careless with them. Very green flag when someone is respectful and careful with my things as i am with theirs.
1 replies 0 reposts 10 likes
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Sarah with an H
@trianglesally.bsky.social
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Showing kindness when they don't know anyone is watching
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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jsch54 ✍️🎨📚 🇺🇦
@jsch54.bsky.social
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Kindness
0 replies 0 reposts 5 likes
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Mike Billips
@mbillips.bsky.social
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They invite me to things that I otherwise would not have known about.
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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wildmonkeysects™
@wildmonkeysects.bsky.social
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They are kind to strangers. Cats like them. They are emotionally stable and emotionally present and emotionally available.
0 replies 0 reposts 7 likes
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Krendar's Adventures
@krendar.bsky.social
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Being a videogame nerd
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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🌷Skippy The Bush Kangaroo🌷
@skippythekangaroo.bsky.social
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I went with someone on an early date to a convention. Someone had given a teenager we didn’t know (like 16) alcohol and they threw up in the movie room. Out of a room of bored fans, my date was right there with a garbage can, making sure they were okay, asking where their friends were and helping.
1 replies 0 reposts 13 likes
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.//Swav Silverhand✘ 🖥️
@suavevillain.bsky.social
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People who know how to respect, giving people some space. It is such a small thing to get right, but it is good to give friends and family room to breath.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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RefinedPlat
@refinedplat.bsky.social
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Seafoam hue flag for sure
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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The Gray Gay
@graygay.bsky.social
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Good credit history. 😁
0 replies 0 reposts 7 likes
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Mike W
@latimeriidae.bsky.social
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“Huh, guess I was wrong about that”
0 replies 0 reposts 24 likes
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David Cornelson
@david-cornelson.bsky.social
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They have a DNA level ability to listen and care about everyone.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Shane Brown
@specificliftingbot.bsky.social
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Being kind to animals. Kind to humans is assumed. But helping that insect get out a window, letting the spider go on its merry way (or relocating scary ones), letting ants finish their snack on the abandoned food, a vet trip with a dazed possum from the side of the road. Big wavy green.
0 replies 0 reposts 7 likes
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Shane Ivins
@charmingkobold.bsky.social
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Direct, candid honesty. Telling me exactly how you feel and expecting the same from me. Sugar-coating only leads to misunderstandings; I love when people can be blunt with me. I've been told this is a neurodivergent trait, and that probably checks out. 😅
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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NJ
@tashjoeza.bsky.social
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Someone who is nerdily, adorably STOKED about something. Anything. A weird niche hobby, a particular science, music, whatever. And they are equally pleased to listen to me nerding out about my interests.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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L Wasson
@wassonl.bsky.social
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the ability to say "I don't know"
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Gregg McLennan
@strayarc.bsky.social
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Punctuality. I've come to accept the chronic tardiness in my missus because god knows she puts up with a lot.
0 replies 0 reposts 7 likes
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Sela of the Disastral Clocktower
@sela.bsky.social
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They’re genuinely nice to people around them even people they don’t “have to” be nice to
0 replies 0 reposts 24 likes
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Jac Mac
@jacmacandsneeze.bsky.social
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small potatoes but saying please or thank you consistently, a surprising number of people don't say either often, or at all
1 replies 0 reposts 30 likes
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ꗃ Mathersen.
@minhyungx.bsky.social
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Be patient
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Cinema Strikes Back
@cinemastrikesback.bsky.social
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dog lover
0 replies 0 reposts 7 likes
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Alex M
@alexonmetsassa.bsky.social
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For me it’s probably just when I feel seen. Like when I say something and they affirm my feelings about myself or the world instead of denying them or trying to interpret the words to mean something else.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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@tinymattresses.bsky.social
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They show INTEREST. (Sometimes it's a braveness thing. Sometimes it really isn't.)
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Christina Ng
@reconnectsreiki.bsky.social
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When they help cook a meal AND clean up afterwards.
0 replies 0 reposts 8 likes
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Corrigan Blake
@corriganblaken7.bsky.social
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Kindness to strangers
0 replies 0 reposts 34 likes
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Dude Yumi
@sshubi.bsky.social
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Keeps their table neat when eating at a restaurant.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Pellechs
@pellechs.bsky.social
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Kind to animals. Readers. Big tippers. Stopping to comment on and/or smell plants. Picking up trash as they walk. I knew my partner was for me when I went to his apt for the first time and saw he had the entire original series of Night Court on DVD. 👍👍
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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amy dunne truther
@jsnfra.bsky.social
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Pakistan
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chadzia dax 🖖🏻 😷 🔞
@m00psy.bsky.social
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still wears well-fitting, high-quality respirators everywhere, no exceptions; bonus points if you’re still basically sheltering in place like i have been because that’s the best way we’ve got left at this point to not get covid. (and even then…) 😞
0 replies 1 reposts 12 likes
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TashasEv
@tashasev.bsky.social
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This is a great thread 💖
1 replies 0 reposts 6 likes
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Half Dad, Half Misfit
@halfdadhalfmisfit.bsky.social
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When you follow them home in diguise from the date and find out they treat everyone nicely like saying thank you to the bus driver who drives the bus past their house and then when you fake your way into their workplace dressed as the CEO all their colleagues like them
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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Billy Suter
@suterb42.bsky.social
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Curiosity.
0 replies 0 reposts 22 likes
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Chad Grayson
@chadgrayson.bsky.social
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My now-fiance and I had been dating about a month. I got us tickets to an event. When we were just about to enter, I realized the tickets were for the next week. I had screwed up the dates. I was so embarrassed but he just laughed and said, 'let's go get dinner. I just want to spend time with you.'
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Suzanne
@anatomoth.bsky.social
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Meeting the weird level instantly and they love cats!
1 replies 0 reposts 9 likes
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RaccoonMoose
@raccoonmoose.bsky.social
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Generous. I don’t expect to be blanketed in minks and diamonds, but if a guy is stingy with tips at dinner and always looking for the cheaper versions of things, it’s going to be miserable
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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flightless
@flightless.bsky.social
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He was on the phone with his best, oldest friend & told him he loved him.
0 replies 0 reposts 3 likes
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Sam 🎨 "Spooky Dog"
@samccreates.bsky.social
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If they see a snail, moving it off the path so they don't get smooshed. 🐌⚠️👟
0 replies 1 reposts 2 likes
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Blair the AuDHD Mess
@blairingmysoul.bsky.social
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Honesty. As an AuDHD person, I always say what I mean, so I appreciate it when people give me the same courtesy.
0 replies 0 reposts 4 likes
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Lesbian Akuma Wannabe
@erisgirlbeast.bsky.social
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They like obscure martial arts films
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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The Kath in the Hat 🏳️🌈
@kath67.bsky.social
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You catch each others’ enthusiasm- those times when you cut in excitedly with “Yes, and-“ and the conversation catches fire 🔥
0 replies 0 reposts 5 likes
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The Kath in the Hat 🏳️🌈
@kath67.bsky.social
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We make each other laugh
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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Alex Wallace
@spanishspy.bsky.social
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willing to talk about the deep recesses of obscure topics
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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TheeBoneDaddy
@theebonedaddy.bsky.social
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Open to spontaneity and adventure
0 replies 0 reposts 0 likes
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@kear.bsky.social
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likes mystery science theater 3000
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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@palchez.bsky.social
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Vegan for moral reasons.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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phantasma dot com
@phantasmajones.bsky.social
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Likes Garfield
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Aditya Mandrekar
@adityamandrekar.bsky.social
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A happy reaction when they see a pet. Bonus if they say something silly. (See: xkcd Cat Proximity)
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Wayne He/Him
@shakesfirst.bsky.social
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"Fuck a red flag" is my entire love life.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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dani (they/them chaos goblin)
@djamiempls.meatjacker.social
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When they aren't afraid to be silly and enjoy the little things
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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Miss Suzy
@sqrlymofo.bsky.social
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Their interest and willingness to grab my ass.
0 replies 0 reposts 12 likes
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LCcamano
@lccamano.bsky.social
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before I started dating the man I married, I realized that he was truly and sincerely happy when good things happened for other people major green flag
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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It's ME(Jaime)
@exceedhergrasp1.bsky.social
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Genuinely fond of Star Trek and/or LoTR and not for the fight scenes in either
0 replies 0 reposts 8 likes
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It's ME(Jaime)
@exceedhergrasp1.bsky.social
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Sticking out their hand and waiting for the cat/dog to sniff it and not fussing if the animal trots off without cuddles/pets.
0 replies 0 reposts 25 likes
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It's ME(Jaime)
@exceedhergrasp1.bsky.social
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Kind to service workers and others over whom they have presumed power. Kinder than they would be to a random human, b/c they know that.
0 replies 0 reposts 16 likes
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WIRetiredGuy
@jsgjames.bsky.social
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Kindness.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Sturdy McSturdy Pants
@sturdy.bsky.social
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Quick to apologize when they're wrong and then make needed changes; willing and able to move through conflict in a way that's generous, constructive, and kind.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Jono
@jonocarpenter.bsky.social
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Has a healthy relationship with their parents.
1 replies 0 reposts 5 likes
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James RS
@milknosugar.bsky.social
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Loves their food (okay, greedy if you insist🙂), laughs freely & hugs properly. If they’re a good cook too, I’m totally their slave!
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Liv Rainey-Smith
@livraineysmith.bsky.social
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Caring about art/culture. Doesn’t have to be visual art, or something “highbrow”, just enthusiasm for either practicing or supporting creative expression.
0 replies 0 reposts 4 likes
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constructive iconoclast
@ador.bsky.social
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they like animals
0 replies 0 reposts 27 likes
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Girth Brooks 🔞
@twerknowitzki.bsky.social
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Kindness
0 replies 0 reposts 9 likes
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Sleek
@sleek.bsky.social
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Befriending all the pets
0 replies 0 reposts 34 likes
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Laura La
@laurala.bsky.social
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Helps your best friend on her worst day even though he hadn't met her yet.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Hannah K
@fatdogformidterms.bsky.social
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When you say you haven't seen / read / heard something they love, they go, "Oh my gosh, that's amazing, I hope you love it" instead of shaming you for not having consumed all media ever
0 replies 0 reposts 13 likes
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stephanie roberts
@ringtales.bsky.social
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i once had a beautiful relationship begin on a shared hatred of Sylvia Plath's husband
1 replies 0 reposts 5 likes
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Kevin Veale 😷 (Toitū Te Tiriti)
@krveale.bsky.social
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Someone showing kindness and respect to those with no power and who have nothing the person wants.
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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JBV
@jverheul.bsky.social
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Appreciates Princess Bride references.
1 replies 0 reposts 11 likes
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@40lb.bsky.social
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When rescuing a cat from a shelter, get one that purs with human affection or touch.
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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contagonist
@contagonist.bsky.social
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makes art
0 replies 0 reposts 16 likes
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Ra's al Dolezal
@senatorivy.bsky.social
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Respect and care for animals
0 replies 0 reposts 22 likes
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Van Weasel 🔥 Summer Hater Arc 🔥
@vanweezer.bsky.social
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Curious and nonjudgmental
0 replies 0 reposts 22 likes
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Adobe Creative Clout Services
@drangel.bsky.social
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When they laugh at your jokes in a way you've never heard before
0 replies 0 reposts 13 likes
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Steady the squirrel
@steadysquirrel.bsky.social
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Respect for nature
1 replies 0 reposts 25 likes
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Deep Doughbeast
@deepdoughbeast.bsky.social
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They talk up other people. Even when they have complaints, there's a compliment in there too. Example, a coworker, when angry about her job, will say things like "I like Steve, I absolutely could not do his easiest day on my best day, but (her current problem with him)."
0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Laura Odelius
@lauraodelius.bsky.social
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Alt text 💚
0 replies 0 reposts 10 likes
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Janet Lunde
@janetlunde.bsky.social
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They try to make things easy for others, especially people with less power. Such as: They put the grocery cart back in the corral. They’re ready to give their order. They shovel their sidewalk.
1 replies 0 reposts 14 likes
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Adrian Chadd
@erikarn.bsky.social
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She talks with me about her story ideas and what book she's going to write next
0 replies 0 reposts 9 likes
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Curri en Burocracia 🏳️🌈
@dunearena.bsky.social
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Welcoming hugs is my green flag. That people that hugs you and you feel everything is ok, you’re home. That people.
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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Jay in NH
@jayinnh.bsky.social
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Being open to the world: being curious and asking questions about the unexpected instead of disliking or dismissing it. As someone who enjoys creativity and imagination, it’s nice when people don’t need things in a very predictable box.
1 replies 0 reposts 29 likes
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Carnage Asada
@cinerina.bsky.social
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Lots of books and/or big music library and/or omnivorous about seeing bands or theater or movies: curiosity and enthusiasm and support of art
0 replies 0 reposts 4 likes
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Busted_Halo
@bustedhalo.bsky.social
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Someone who recommends good books to read based on their knowledge of you
0 replies 0 reposts 8 likes
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TM Waspy Dude
@tmwaspydude.bsky.social
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Tolerating me going "oh no..." when I think the story in a movies is about to become a fine mist of shit in the protagonists' fan
0 replies 0 reposts 5 likes
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The 🟦 Doctor
@lucidillusions.in
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0 replies 0 reposts 1 likes
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Big DeVito Energy
@mayawest.online
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they actually like telling me about their day/their pets etc. i hate having to drag a conversation out of someone.
1 replies 0 reposts 54 likes
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Sarah
@sibwow.bsky.social
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Comfortable silence
0 replies 0 reposts 2 likes
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bettybarcode
@bettybarcode.bsky.social
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Guy who keeps tampons on hand for female guests Reader, I married him
2 replies 0 reposts 34 likes
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ZenCanuck
@zencanuck.bsky.social
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She has little treats in her purse.
0 replies 0 reposts 19 likes